When patients think you're a mind reader

You ever had a patient just look at you and expect you to know exactly what they need? I had a guy the other day nodding at me while I was doing my charting, and I just stood there like a deer in headlights. Turns out he wanted a cup of water! Sometimes I wonder how they think this all works.

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I feel you on that! I’ve had patients make the same look while I was balancing charting. I started keeping a water pitcher nearby — definitely saves me from those deer-in-headlights moments.

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I totally get that look! I’ve started asking open-ended questions when I notice that stare — like, ‘How can I help you today?’ It really opens up communication. And hey, if you keep a water pitcher nearby, you might just become their favorite nurse.

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It drives me nuts when they give that look! Just the other day, I had a guy stare at me for a solid five minutes before I realized he needed his blanket adjusted. Maybe it’s time to start a quick check-in routine before diving into charting.

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